Recently separated & sorting out Property, Financial & Children arrangements

My wife and I have recently separated although we remain on good terms. We are keen to sort out property and financial matters, as well as the arrangements for the children and would like to do this amicably. Do we need solicitors and will we have to go to court?

As lawyers, we always encourage couples to reach agreement on as much as possible to avoid further upset at a difficult time. However, it’s also important to bear in mind that high levels of stress can affect your judgment and you should always have at least some advice from a solicitor.

It’s quite natural that you will agree on some things, but not others. In this case you could consider going to mediation. Your solicitor can arrange an appointment at which you can both assess whether the mediation process is right for you.

The mediator is a totally independent professional and will work to resolve disputes between you and your wife. Throughout the process you can continue to take advice and assistance from your solicitor.

Another possible option is collaborative law. This involves you and your wife, along with your legal representatives, taking part in a ‘round the table’ meeting aimed at trying to resolve matters amicably and without court proceedings.

If an agreement is reached there should be no need for you to attend court and you will potentially save on legal fees.